{"id":1103,"date":"2014-10-15T13:31:53","date_gmt":"2014-10-15T17:31:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cindiferrini.com\/?page_id=1103"},"modified":"2023-02-22T07:40:25","modified_gmt":"2023-02-22T12:40:25","slug":"building-relationships","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/cindiferrini.com\/index.php\/building-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Building Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Building Relationships<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n
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Nature of the relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>

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Quality of the relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>

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Actions to take in the relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td><\/tr>

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COMMITTED<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Only a few people will reach this level with us because of the depth of the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>

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  • Committed<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Faithful<\/strong><\/li>\n
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  • Discover each other\u2019s strengths and weaknesses.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Open and transparent communication.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Freedom to listen, speak and act.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Committed to confidentiality.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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  • Able to encourage, correct, confront and help them reach goals and dreams.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td><\/tr>
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CULTIVATING<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Fewer relationships in our lives get to this level.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>

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  • Feeling<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • (Emotional)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td>
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  • Enjoy similar interests.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Plan things in common to enjoy together.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • We \u2018click\u2019.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td>
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  • Spend time together getting to know them.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • \u201cDig\u201d deeper into the relationship, cultivating growth (asking and answering the why questions).<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td><\/tr>
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CASUAL<\/strong><\/h2>\n

A great number of relationships in our lives fall into this category.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>

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  • Intellectual<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Factual<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Familiar<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • Casual<\/strong><\/li>\n
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  • Know casually.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  • See occasionally
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