{"id":1707,"date":"2015-02-18T16:35:53","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T21:35:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cindiferrini.com\/?p=1707"},"modified":"2015-02-18T16:35:53","modified_gmt":"2015-02-18T21:35:53","slug":"dont-be-jealous-of-our-romantic-wow-write-on-wednesday-takes-1-30-min-to-read","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cindiferrini.com\/index.php\/2015\/02\/18\/dont-be-jealous-of-our-romantic-wow-write-on-wednesday-takes-1-30-min-to-read\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Be Jealous of Our Romantic…(WOW! Write On Wednesday! takes 1.30 min. to read)"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I\u2019m glad I got your attention. Romance always does, right? You wonder where we might have gone that you\u2019ll get to try some time. Or perhaps you\u2019re thinking we found a great new spot for dinner and you\u2019ll be adding it to your list of places to go!<\/p>\n

Well, lane change<\/em>! That\u2019s not exactly where I taking you. Instead, I\u2019m taking you on a little trip. Oh, yes, it\u2019s a real trip. But it wasn\u2019t the trip I was expecting and neither were you.<\/p>\n

Recently, we realized in planning a trip for ministry, that the hopeful 3 days we\u2019d hoped to have (just the 2 of us seeing the sites after the meetings) would need to include our son. The usual care options for our 33 year old son with special needs weren\u2019t available for that frame of time and we would need to take him with us or not go. Delete the words not go <\/em>and romantic. <\/em>Even though the trip had nothing to do with romance, just the two of us getting to be together can be romantic because we\u2019re not really alone that much!<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve come to realize that sometimes that \u201cromantic dinner for 2\u201d will actually be 3, or the trip that was to be just the two of us will be including our son. It\u2019s a matter of vocabulary and<\/em> attitude. If we want to do these things, sometimes we need to think outside the box and just make a new plan.<\/p>\n

When your plans get changed, the romance you hoped would happen \u2013 doesn\u2019t, or you can\u2019t do what you\u2019d thought you might, can you change the vocabulary and attitude to fit the circumstances and enjoy the journey?<\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t arrived yet; I\u2019m still learning, but now I generally make sure I reserve a table for 3!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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